Hi i am posting without my sister's knowledge because i know that she will never ask for help. she is a very dedicated mom and has been a dedicated wife to her husband for many years. The problem is, its been a very emtionally and mentally abusive relationship. She hid it well til recently. She puts everyones needs ahead of hers and she puts her kids #1 ahead of herself. That and knowing he is gone for X amount of time she mentioned that if she could do this then the rest she knows she can do. But as of now she dont know.
Her husband has taken a job out of the country and she has decided that this is prime chance to try to get her and her children ready to leave. Problem is she has no self confidence anymore and is sure she will never get a job that is able to support them due to one of the controlling factors her husband allowed.
My sister like myself and my younger sister has a issue with tooth degeneration. She went through a couple years of scalings and such but her husband would grumble about the cost and such. When the cost of extractions came up he literally refused to discuss it.
Over time and pregnancy she is basically lost them all except as she puts it the stubs left. She is beautiful and eager to better herself and her kids lives , but as he has made her believe "no one or no job is gonna want her with no teeth like they are" she really needs this done.
She is in hampton roads , va area. But she cant let him know she is doing this because she doesnt want any recoil because this is all in a attempt to leave a very bad situation.
Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated and helpful.
